Choosing the right executor:

A decision that matters more than you think

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One of the most important—and often overlooked—decisions in estate planning is choosing an executor.

An executor is the person (or organization) responsible for carrying out your wishes after you pass away. They step into your shoes to manage your financial affairs, settle debts, and ultimately ensure your assets are distributed according to your will. Without a named executor, the court will appoint someone to handle these responsibilities, removing that decision from your control.

While it may seem like a simple choice, the role of an executor is anything but. It requires time, organization, and a strong sense of responsibility.

After someone passes, the executor’s duties typically begin with locating and filing the will. From there, they must identify all assets and liabilities, sometimes requiring a detailed search through documents, accounts, and even physical storage locations. They are also responsible for closing accounts, notifying institutions, and handling ongoing financial matters.

Financial obligations are another critical piece. The executor must pay outstanding debts, determine which creditor claims are valid, and ensure all necessary taxes are filed and paid. Only after these responsibilities are fulfilled can the remaining assets be distributed to beneficiaries.

Given the scope of these responsibilities, choosing the right person is essential.

Start by considering ability. An executor must be legally eligible, typically at least 18 years old and capable of understanding and managing financial and legal matters. Beyond that, responsibility is key. This should be someone who is organized, dependable, and comfortable following through on detailed tasks and deadlines.

Equally important is willingness. While you ultimately decide who to name, it’s wise to have a conversation beforehand. The role can be time-consuming, and clarity upfront helps avoid surprises later.

You should also think about age and health. Naming someone who is likely to outlive you—or naming a backup executor—can help ensure your plan remains intact over time.

In some cases, a professional executor, such as an attorney, accountant, or trust company, may be the right fit. This can be especially helpful if your estate is complex, your family situation is complicated, or your loved ones live far away. While professional services typically come with a cost, they can also provide objectivity and experience during what can be an emotional and complex process.

At its core, choosing an executor is about trust. You are selecting someone to carry out your wishes, protect your legacy, and support your family during a difficult time.

Taking the time to make this decision thoughtfully can provide something invaluable, not just for you, but for those you leave behind: clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.


Thomas M. Dowling, CFA, CFP®, CIMA® is the Head of Wealth Management at Alliance Global Partners of the Lowcountry on Hilton Head. He can be reached at infohh@allianceg.com or (843) 420-1993.